Monday, January 31, 2011

Summer Sundays

January is a slow month around these parts. The kids are out of school, the artisans are taking a break, and lots of Peruvians spend the month visiting family around the country. I've spent the past few weeks re-acclimating to Peace Corps life by lounging in the hammock and cranking my fan up to high speed. I've read a lot of books and watched more movies than I'd like to admit. The days are long, lazy, and hot.

My favorite part about the summer here is Sundays. On Sundays everyone puts down their machete (for hacking down the sugarcane) or aprons and spends the day relaxing. Last Sunday, my host fam and I attended the opening of a "beach" bar across the river. We rolled up our pants and waded through the pebbly water to the sandy shores of Pucala to while away the afternoon enjoying ceviche and cerveza, and do a little dancing, of course.

The river is a big summertime destination. Peruvians aren't big on bathing suits, so men and boys alike splash around in their tighty-whities (sorry ladies, no pictures), while the women sunbathe in tank tops and shorts (though one day I saw a brave exhibitionist wearing only a bra -- scandalous). On the weekends there are literally hundreds of people playing in the shallow waters of Rio Reque.

Papy has been busily constructing a coliseo de gallos (cockfighting ring) over the past month and yesterday was its inauguration. The last week has been a flurry of activity with last-minute construction, the arrival of out-of-town family members (and their chickens), and cooking. The day was a big success -- tons of people came from all over and all 100 cases of beer were consumed. I dusted off my bartending skills and served lukewarm Cristal the thirsty masses. I also served as the event's madrina (sort of like a guest of honor/patron) and presented a weird plaque/statue to a famous gallero.

Performing my duty as madrina.

With the other VIPs.

I watched a lot of fighting gamecocks but couldn't get the hang of the betting system and ended up losing 10 soles to a drunk old man wearing a cowboy hat. I had better luck on the dance floor where all the Peruvians got a big kick out of watching my gringa hips swaying and shimmying. I'll do anything for a laugh.

A full house.

Watch the action live!

I'll be the first one to admit that I've struggled with finding meaningful and sustainable projects as a volunteer, but I consider my relationship with my community, especially my host family, to be my real success. I never tire hearing my host family refer to me as their daughter or sister. I don't know when it happened, but I really do feel a part of this family. We've even reached the point of good-natured ribbing. This morning my host mom handed me a huge plate of ceviche (the national hangover cure) with a knowing wink and the first thing Papy said to me was "Wow, Jessica, you sure made a lot of new friends last night." Love it!

The intervening days might be long and sweaty, but these summer Sundays are welcome reminders of the many reasons I do love this country and its people.

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Stranded Solo

Happy 2011! I hope you all had a wonderful holiday season with friends and family. I know I did. I was lucky enough to spend the past two weeks in North and South Carolina with some of my most favorite people in the whole wide world. What a difference a year makes! Last Christmas was an eye-opening and gut-checking experience, one that I am extremely grateful for, but one I was happy to put behind me and head north for a traditional Joye family Christmas.

The Joye kids

A white Christmas! A big climate change from northern Peru!

I won't bore you all with the quirky and wonderful family traditions -- we all have them. Suffice to say, I had an amazing trip and was reminded, again, just how fortunate I am. This whole living alone in the middle of nowhere thing really makes you appreciate "normal" life and all the people that create that sense of home for you.

Christmas Eve dinner, a favorite tradition

The girls at FollyFest, a new tradition

Today I find myself in travel limbo, stuck in Ecuador waiting on my bags to catch up with me and an open bus to take me back to Peru. For as much as I harp on about the joys of travel, sometimes it's a huge pain in the ass. Not only was I extremely sad to say good-bye, again, to everyone and everything I love back in the States, but now I'm stranded in a nowhere city unsure of when I can get back to my other home. Or when the pieces of my real home my mother so lovingly packed will find me. It's kind of the last place in the world I want to be and reminds me of one of the worst parts of solo travel -- the unsettling sense of homelessness.

Perfecting the self-portrait during some solo sightseeing around Guayaquil, Ecuador

Luckily, there's an abundance of international hotel chains near the airport that accept Visa. A comfy bed, unlimited wifi and a well-stocked mini bar help ease the pain a bit. What else is a girl to do?

**Update** My bags arrived late last night, after much waiting, eyelash batting, and negotiating to get back into international baggage claim to find my own bag. The Goldfish and homemade banana bread are only slightly worse for the wear, as am I. The interminable journey continues. Huaca Rajada, here I come.